Esikhathini esidlule, ngisho nanamuhla, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izinja zidinga umholi ovelele ozitshela ukuthi zenzeni noma nini lapho lowo muntu efuna. Yiqiniso, badinga othile ukubatshela indlela yokuziphatha, kodwa ubudlelwano nabantu, ngokombono wami, kufanele ihlale ivela kozakwabo noma kubanganifuthi hhayi 'isilwane esifuywayo esiyinkosi nesizithobayo'.
Kufanele baphathwe njengalokhu abayikho: izinja ezinhle ezingakufundisa okuningi ngawe. ngaphandle kokubenza abantukodwa futhi ungabaphathi sengathi abanalutho imizwa…ngoba banazo. Kodwa-ke, abaluqondi ulimi lwethu, ngakho kufanele simsize aqonde lokho esikulindele kuye. Ake sifunde indlela yokuqondisa inja yakho.
Ukubekezela, ukungaguquguquki nokungaguquguquki
Lezi izihluthulelo zokuqinisekisa ukuthi inja yakho iphila ngenjabulo nawe futhi iziphatha ngendlela ehloniphekile. Ukuphathwa kabiKokubili ukushaya nokumemeza kuzokwenza isilwane sizwe ukwesabaEkugcineni uyokwenza lokho okucelayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi uyazi ukuthi uma engakwenzanga, uzophathwa kabi; lokhu akuyona impilo. Uma uletha inja ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba nesineke kakhulu kuye futhi umhlonipheNgeke silindele ukuba nomngane onoboya onempilo enhle uma kuyithina esibaphucayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu futhi ukuthi asihambisaneUma ubaba evumela inja ukuba ilale embhedeni kodwa uMama angayenzi, inja cishe izodideka… futhi igcine isingena embhedeni ngoba ikhululeke kakhulu kunosofa futhi, yebo, inethezeke kakhulu kunombhede wayo 😉. Ngakho-ke, kusukela ngosuku lokuqala, kubalulekile ukukucacisa ukuthi iyini imithetho. imikhawulo ukugwema ukudideka. Umndeni wonke kufanele uwasebenzise amagama afanayo nokushukuma komzimba futhi uqinise okufanayo.
Zivocavoce
Inja ngidinga ukuzivocavoca nsuku zonkeukuhlala usesimweni esihle ngokomzimba futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, isimo sengqondo. Nsuku zonke kufanele amkhiphe ahambe kancanenjalo ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma singakwenza kanye kuphela, kungcono ukugijima (noma ngisho nokugibela ibhayisikili) kunokuhamba ngezinyawo, kodwa uma kuwuhambo, kufanele kube isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
Uma sinenhlanhla eyanele yokuba nepaki yezinja edolobheni, Kunconywa kakhulu ukumthatha ayoxhumana nabanye bohlobo lwakhe futhi udlale nabo. Futhi imidlalo ehlukile ye ukuhogela (sesha imiklomelo) kanye nokuzivocavoca kwe ukulalela Kancane ngesikhathi sohambo ukuze amkhathaze ngokomqondo.
Ngala macebiso, sithemba ukuthi umngani wakho jabula kakhulu, kakhulu .
Izinhlobo zokuqeqeshwa nokuthi kungani kufanele ukhethe ukuqinisa okuhle
Ekuqeqeshweni, izimpendulo ezintathu ziyabonakala: negative, ongenandaba y okuhleUkwenqaba (ukuthethisa, ukuklabalasa, ukujezisa) kudala izinhlangano zokwesaba futhi ibhidliza isibopho. Umuntu ongenandaba uvumela inja yenze izinto ngaphandle kwesiqondiso, ngakho Akafundi Esikufunayo. I ukuqinisa okuhle kusekelwe ku- imivuzo, ukugona nokudlalafuthi ihlotshaniswa nemiphumela engcono kanye nengcono impilo ngokomzwelo.
Uma ucasuka uma engafiki uzomthethisa uma umbona, kungenzeka ukuthi ngokuzayo indlela yesihlokoNgakolunye uhlangothi, uma umklomelisa njalo uma efika, uzohlobanisa ucingo lwakho ne... into enhle y uzofika ngokushesha futhi ejabule.
Ungakha kanjani isibopho esihle: ukudla nokudlala
Cishe zonke izinja zishukunyiswa izinto ezimbili "ngokuzenzakalelayo": udle y ukuzingela (kushaneli njengomdlalo). Isebenzisa imiklomelo Okukhethekile -ngcono kunesabelo sabo sansuku zonke-ukuqinisa ukuziphatha abakufunayo, futhi ugcine lezo zingcezu ezincane ukuqeqeshwa. Qaphelani Amajuji Ukhetha (amabhola, hlafuna amathoyizi, izintambo) futhi uphakamisa izikhathi ezimfushane zokujaha nokudonsa ukuze akhulule ukucindezeleka futhi uqinise isibopho.
Imiyalo eyisisekelo nokushaya okuthembekile isinyathelo ngesinyathelo
Bahlezi phansi ("hlala"): liqondise ikhala layo liye phezulu nangemuva ngesandla esibamba ukuyiphatha; uma lihlezi, maka futhi kuqinisaPhinda kuze kube yilapho isilwane siphendula kuphela kuzimpawu zomlomo noma zokuthinta.
Noma kunjaloNgenja ehlezi noma ilele, ithi "hlala," bonisa isandla sakho, thatha igxathu elibuyela emuva, futhi iqinisa uma inganyakaziKhulisa kancane isikhathi nebanga.
Yiyeke y okuxekethile: hweba ukuze uthole okuthile okungcono. Uma ususa ikhala lakho noma vula umlomo wakhoMaka futhi uklomelise. Zilolonge futhi "ukwehla kusofa," ukuqinisa lapho elalela futhi emnika a okunye Phumula.
Ukuqala nini futhi kanjani ukusebenza nezinja ezindala?
Kuhle ukuqala kusukela esemncaneUkusebenzisa ngokunenzuzo ilukuluku lwabo nokudlala. Noma kunjalo zinja Bafunda ukuphila kwabo konkeUmuntu omdala angakwazi ukusungula imikhuba emisha nge ukubekezelelaIzinzuzo zokuba umuntu omdala: zivame ukuba ziningi esitebeleniBayazi izinqubo futhi bangakwazi ukuphatha izikhathi ezinde. Lungisa okulindele, niyabo kancane Uma ubona ukuziphatha okugxilile, funa usizo lochwepheshe. ukuvuselela noma izithiyo ezingokomzwelo.
Amathuluzi okuqeqesha kanye nezimiso zokuziphatha
Ama-leashes, amahanisi, namakholomu akhona i-herramientasAkuzona izixazululo zomlingo. Zisebenzise ngokuhlakanipha futhi, uma kungenzeka, nazo ukuma kobuchwephesheAmakholomu e-electric shock ayanda. akunconyiweZakha ukwesaba, zandisa ukucindezeleka, futhi zilimaza isibopho. Intambo eside Kuwusizo kakhulu kumakholi angaphandle ngaphandle kokubeka engcupheni ukuphepha.
Ulimi, izikhathi, nokuhlangana komndeni
Izinja "azifundi izilimi" njengoba senza: ziyahambisana izimpawu (imisindo/ukusebenza komzimba) ekuziphatheni. Sebenzisa amagama ecacile futhi emfushaneezahlukene komunye nomunye. Isitimela ezindaweni athuleIzikhathi zemizuzu emi-5 ukuya kwengama-20, izikhathi eziningana ngosuku. Umndeni wonke kufanele ubambe iqhaza ukuze ulondoloze ukuvumelanaZijwayeze ubuholi enobungane, ngaphandle kwesijeziso, futhi igubha zonke izinyathelo ezincane eziya phambili.
Ukuqondisa inja yakho akukhona ukuphoqelela intando yakho, kodwa mayelana nokwakha ubuhlobo. ukuzethembaUkunikeza izinketho ezifanele futhi uziqinise kuze kube yizo ezikhethwa yizo; ngaleyo ndlela, ukuphilisana, ukulondeka, kanye nenhlalakahle kukhula ngokubambisana.
