Ukuziqondana kwezinto ekuphileni kungase kusimangaze, futhi le ndaba iyisibonelo esicacile salokho. UJordan Trent, isakhamuzi saseGeorgetown, eTexas, esineminyaka engu-32 ubudala, ulahlekelwe umbono esweni langakwesokunxele kulandela ingozi yasengadini eneminyaka engu-15 kuphela ubudala. Ayengakaze akucabange ukuthi ngemva kweminyaka wayezothola umngane wakhe ophelele, umdlwane owawuneso elilodwa njengaye. Le ndaba yothando nozwela isithinte izinkulungwane zabantu emhlabeni jikelele.
Ukudalelwa kuhlanganisa indoda nenja eneso elilodwa
Ekuphumeni okujwayelekile kokuya esitolo nezingane zakhe, u-Jordan wayengenazo izinhlelo eziqondile zokuthola umdlwane. Nokho, ukuphila kwakulindelwe kuye. Esitolo sendawo, bathola a Umdlwane we-Australian Shepherd ulahlekelwe iso. Izingane zakhe, zijatshuliswe yilokho okwenzeka nje, zamtshela: “Baba ufana nawe nje kumele simgoduse!”. Ethintwa ukusabela kwezingane zakhe, uJordan wayazi ukuthi le nja yayizokuba yingxenye yomndeni wakhe. Lokhu kuhlobana phakathi kwendoda eyimpumputhe eneso elilodwa kanye nomdlwane oneso elilodwa kuyisibonelo esihle sokuthi umehluko ungahlanganisa kanjani izidalwa ezikhethekile ngezikhathi ezingalindelekile.
Umdlwane owaliwe uthola ikhaya lawo elikahle
Kubantu abaningi, inja ene- okukhethekile ngokomzimba njengoba lokhu kungabhekwa "okungaphelele". Ngeshwa, izinja ezikhubazekile zivame ukuba ngezokugcina ukutholwa, njengoba abaningi befuna izilwane ezifuywayo “ezikahle” ngaphandle kokucabangela amathuba othando nokwethembeka. Lo mdlwane, okwakungabonakali muntu ukuthi uyawufuna, wathola eJordani ithuba lokuba nekhaya eligcwele uthando nokuqonda, into engabonakala ezindabeni eziningi ze izinzuzo ezinkulu zokutholwa.
Umthelela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nokusakazwa kwendaba
Indaba kaJordani nomdlwane wakhe omusha, abawuqamba igama Shiner Solo, uye wabonga kakhulu okuthunyelwe ngudadewabo ka-Jordan, u-Kendra Trent. Ngesikhashana esifushane, indaba yabelwane ngezinkulungwane zabasebenzisi, abayibona njengesibonelo isiphetho, uzwela nothando olungenamibandela. Ukuxhumana phakathi kwalaba bobabili akuzange kubonakale, futhi ngokushesha bathola imiyalezo yokwesekwa neyokubancoma evela ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomhlaba. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi izindaba zokutholwa zingathinta kanjani izinhliziyo zabaningi futhi zigcwalise izinkundla zokuxhumana ngemiyalezo eyakhayo.
Incazelo ngemuva kwegama lika-Shiner Solo
UJordani wanquma ukubiza umlingani wakhe omusha Shiner Solo Trent, igama elinencazelo ekhethekile. I-"Shiner" ibhekisela kumkhiqizo wakhe wobhiya ayintandokazi, "i-Solo" isukela ekuthandeni kwezingane zakhe umlingiswa we-Star Wars u-Han Solo, futhi "i-Trent" imele ukuhlanganiswa kwakhe emndenini. Ngakho, igama lomdlwane laba ukubonakaliswa kokuxhumana phakathi kwakhe nephakethe lakhe elisha. Ngaleli gama, indaba iba mnandi kakhulu futhi ibe nenjongo.
Ukujwayela komdlwane ekhaya lawo elisha
Naphezu kokubukeka kwakhe ngokomzimba, uShiner Solo uzivumelanise ngokuphelele nezakhe impilo entsha. Izinja zinekhono elimangalisayo lokunqoba izithiyo, futhi ezimweni eziningi ezinye izinzwa zazo zithuthukiswa ngokwengeziwe lapho zintula eyodwa. U-Jordan nomndeni wakhe bazibophezele ekumnikezeni indawo ephephile nenothando, baqinisekise ukuthi angaphila impilo egcwele. Lokhu kungahlotshaniswa nokubaluleka kokunikeza ukunakekelwa okukhethekile kulabo izinja eziye zaphila kanzima.
UShiner Solo ujabulela imidlalo, ukuhamba ngezinyawo nothando oluningi. Indaba yakhe iphinde yagqugquzela abantu abaningi ukuthi bacabange ukuthatha izilwane ezikhubazekile, baqonde ukuthi zingahola ukuphila okuvamile ngokuphelele ngokunakekelwa okufanele. Lesi yisikhumbuzo sokuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zihlukene kangakanani, zonke izinja zingaba abangane abakhulu.
Ukubaluleka kokutholwa ngaphandle kokubandlulula
Indaba kaJordani noShiner Solo isikhumbuza lokho Zonke izilwane zifanelwe ithuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bahluke kanjani ngokomzimba. Izinja ezikhubazekile zivame ukubhekana nobunzima ekutholeni umndeni, kodwa ikhono lazo lokunikeza uthando nokuba ngabangane abathembekile alinciphi nakancane. Leli qiniso ligqamisa isidingo sokulwa nalo ubandlululo oluhambisana nokutholwa kwezinja ezihlukunyeziwe.
Ukwamukela ngaphandle kokubandlulula kubalulekile ukuze uguqule iqiniso lezinja eziningi kangaka ezilinde ikhaya. Izindaba ezinjengalezi zisikhombisa ukuthi okubalulekile akukhona ukubukeka, kodwa ukubukeka uthando nokuxhumana ekhiqizwa phakathi kwabantu nezilwane ezifuywayo. Ngalo mqondo, u-Jordan kanye nesipiliyoni somdlwane wakhe sisebenza njengesibani sethemba nesikhuthazo kwabanye abacabanga ukutholwa.
Le ndaba ethinta inhliziyo ka-Jordan kanye no-Shiner Solo isiphenduke uphawu lothando olungenamibandela kanye nesikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokukwamukela ngenhliziyo yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuqondana kwempilo kusiholela ekutholeni lokho esikudinga ngempela: ubungane, uthando nokuxhumana okuyingqayizivele.
