Sikweleta okuningi ezilwaneni, ikakhulukazi kulabo abahlala bekhona eceleni kwethu abakulungele usivikele, usisize emsebenzini wethu, usiphelekezele noma senze noma yini futhi ukuthi izinja yizona zici eziyizifanekiselo zalo lonke lolu hlobo lwemisebenzi futhi ngukuthi ababizwa "Umngani Omkhulu Womuntu"kwanoma yini.
Kusukela kwaqala ukufuywa, inja iqhubekile nokwakha ingxenye yomndeni wesintu, ukujabulela imfudumalo efanayo ecishe ifane nelungu ngalinye leqembu lomndeni.
Kwezinye izimo, ukuhlala nezinja kungaholela ukuthuthukiswa kwezibopho eziqinile ezingokomzwelo engxenyeni yezinja, edala imizwa ethile kumalungu omndeni. Enye yalezi zifiso uku vikela izingane, enye yemindeni eqashelwa kakhulu ezinjeni eziningi.
Yize kuyisilwane esifuywayo, izinja zisalokhu zigcina imizwa yazo yokuphila, kanye nesidingo sokwengamela indawo ethile, ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuvikelwa kwabantu abahlala nayo kaningi kuba enye yezindlela zokuziphatha eziyinhloko ezibonwa kulezi, ikakhulukazi uma kumayelana nokuncane kakhulu.
Ngesikhathi kwenziwa lezi zibopho ezikhiqizwa ngokuya ngokuhlangana, inja uzokwazi ukubona iqembu lomndeni njengomhlambi, umhlambi okuhlala kuwo onamandla futhi obuthakathaka. Ngalo mqondo, inja izokwazi ukunquma ukuthi imaphi lawo malungu afanelwe ukuvikelwa okukhulu futhi ngempumelelo, izinja zifunda ukunquma ukuthi abantwana imvamisa yilabo abadinga ukuvikelwa kakhulu.
Uma kukhulunywa ngezingane, izinja kungakhuphula lo muzwa wokuvikelwa, ngoba bayakwazi ukuthola amazinga wokuncika nokuqagela okungenziwa yilungu ngalinye lomndeni ngokuya ngokuziphatha kwabo okuqaphelile.
Ngale ndlela, izinja ziba ngenye ye abavikeli abakhulu bezincane kusuka endlini, okungaba inzuzo enkulu, ngoba kunezinkomba ezingenakwenzeka ukuhlukanisa ngamehlo, kanti ezimweni zezinja kungenzeka. Isibonelo salokhu kungaba izinguquko ze-hormonal ukuthi ezinye izinto eziphilayo zingaziveza lapho zilungiselela ukuhlasela, isimo esingacwaswa yimizwa yenja.
Kulokhu, kunezimo eziningi esingaziphinda kuzo lapho inja inganquma khona ukubakhona kosongo olungaba khona izingane.
Uma sifuna ukuthi lokhu kuqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa ama-reinforcers, izikhuthazi okuthi, ngandlela thile, zikwazi ukuvuza ukuziphatha kwenja, obekuzokwenziwa ngenhloso yokugcina umlando wokuziphatha oshiwo.
Ngomqondo osebenzayo, kufanelekile vuza imidlalo inja enayo nengane ngesikhathi esithile futhi akudingekile ukusebenzisa amaswidi noma ukudla okuyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi vele usebenzise ukushukuma kothando enjeni, ngendlela yokuthi ithola uhlobo oluthile lomvuzo ohambelana nabanikazi bawo.
Yize kunesibopho esithuthukiswayo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungalahlekelwa yilolu hlobo lokuxhumana, ngoba ilukuluku lengane, kanye nokukhula kwayo okuthuthukayo, kungadala izinhlobo ezithile ukuxhumana phakathi kwengane nenja, kudala isimo sokudideka lapho inja izwa khona isidingo sokuzivikela, yingakho kunconywa ukugcina lolu hlobo ukuxhumana ngaphansi kokuqapha njalo ngesikhathi sokuletha la malungu amabili adlalayo endlu ndawonye.

