Kuyamangalisa ukuthi bangaki abantu abacabanga lokho izingane ezincane nezilwane Azihambisani. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nesayensi iyawusekela umqondo wokuthi izingane kufanele zibe nesilwane ebuntwaneni bazo, njengoba sibanikeza izinzuzo ezinkulu. Abagcini nje ngokubagcina bekanye nabo futhi babe ozakwabo abadlala nabo, kodwa futhi baphelele ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezithile. Izinkinga ezingokomzwelo kanye nobuhlungu bobuntwana, okuhlinzeka ngokuphepha, ukuzola kanye nomthombo wothando olungenamibandela okunzima kakhulu ukuwuthola kwezinye izindawo.
Ngaphezu kwezinja zokwelapha, ukuba nenja ekhaya nezingane kungaba nokuningi inzuzo Kubo, lokhu kudlulela ngisho nasempilweni yabo engokomzimba nengokwengqondo. Ukuxhumana kwansuku zonke nesilwane esifuywayo kuthonya intuthuko yabo yezenhlalo, amakhono okuxhumana, imikhuba yokusebenza, ngisho nendlela abafunda ngayo ukulawula ukukhungatheka nokudabuka.
Ngakho-ke uma uke wacabanga ukuletha inja ekhaya, manje usungakwazi ukubona zonke izizathu zokuthi kungani kungumqondo omuhle uma kukhona izingane endlini, uma nje kukhona ukwamukelwa okufaneleIzidingo zesilwane ziyahlonishwa, futhi izingane ezincane zifundiswa indlela efanele yokuphatha umngane wazo onoboya.
Izinzuzo ezingokomzwelo zezingane ezikhula nezilwane ezifuywayo
Izingane ezikhula nezilwane ezifuywayo baqinise ukuzethemba kwabo Ngalezi zindlela zokuxhumana, ngenxa yesibopho abasisungulayo kanye nothando abalubonisana bobabili, lesi silwane siba umthombo wokusekela njalo: asihluleli, asisihleki, futhi sihlala sitholakala ukuze sidlale noma sithole uthando, okukhuthaza umuzwa wokwaziswa nokuthandwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi kuyabasiza ukuba babe nokuningi uzwela Bazoba nobudlelwano kakhulu lapho bexhumana nabanye. Ukuqonda ukuthi inja noma ikati labo lizwa nokwesaba, injabulo, noma ubuhlungu kwenza kube lula ngabo ukuqonda kangcono imizwa yabanye abantu: abangane, izingane zakubo, noma ofunda nabo.
Ukuhlala nesilwane nakho kuyasiza ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka kanye nokukhathazeka kobuntwana. Ukuyithinta inja, ukulala eceleni kwayo, noma ukudlala ngayo kukhuthaza ukukhishwa kwama-hormone ahlobene nenhlalakahle, njenge-serotonin nama-endorphin, futhi kunciphisa ukukhiqizwa kwe-cortisol, i-hormone yokucindezeleka. Yingakho izingane eziningi ziphendukela ngokuzenzekelayo esilwaneni sazo lapho zizizwa zidabukile, zithukuthele, noma zesaba.
Izilwane ezifuywayo ziwusizo olukhulu ukuhambisa ulaka futhi bathuthukise ukuziphatha. Ukuze bafundise inja yabo ukuziphatha kahle, ingane idinga ukukhuluma ngokuthula, ihlale ivumelana nezimo, futhi ifunde ukulawula ithoni yayo kanye nokusabela kwayo; ngokwenza kanjalo, ifunda nokulawula imizwa yayo nokukhulumisana ngenhlonipho.
Ezimweni ezinzima ezinganeni, njengezinsuku zokuqala zesikole noma izinguquko ezinkulu zomndeni, ukuba khona kwesilwane esifuywayo kusebenza njengesilwane esifuywayo. isisekelo esivikelekileUkwazi ukuthi bangakwazi ukwanga inja noma ikati labo lapho befika ekhaya kwenza ukuhlukana nabazali babo kube lula futhi kubasize babhekane nezinselele ezintsha ngokuzethemba okwengeziwe.
Umthwalo wemfanelo, izindinganiso kanye nentuthuko yomphakathi
Ezinye izinzuzo zokuba nesilwane esisheshayo ukuthi bafunda ngokushesha lokho imithwalo yemfaneloInja idinga ukondliwa futhi ibe nesimiso sokuhamba, isikhathi sokudlala, kanye nokuphumula. Uma sivumela izingane ukuthi zithwale umthwalo wemisebenzi ethile, njengokunikeza inja amanzi, ukusiza ukuyihlanza, noma ukuyiphelezela lapho ihamba, sizobe sizisiza ukuba zikhule ngokuzifundisa ukuthi inhlalakahle yesinye isidalwa esiphilayo incike ezenzweni zazo.
Lokhu kuhlanganyela ekunakekelweni kwansuku zonke kusiza izingane zikhule izindinganiso zokuziphatha njengenhlonipho, ubumbano, kanye nozwela. Bafunda ukuthi izilwane ziyazizwa, ukuthi aziwona amathoyizi, nokuthi zidinga ukunakwa, isikhala, kanye nesikhathi sokuthula. Lokhu kufunda kwasebuntwaneni kamuva kuthonya indlela abaphatha ngayo abanye abantu.
Izilwane ezifuywayo nazo zisebenza njenge- ibhuloho lomphakathiUkuhamba nenja noma ukuya epaki kwenza kube lula ukuxhumana nezinye izingane kanye nabantu abadala, kudala izingxoxo ezizenzakalelayo, futhi kunciphisa amahloni. Izingane eziningi zithola ezilwaneni zazo njengesihloko esivamile sengxoxo, okwenza kube lula ukwenza abangane abasha.
Ekhaya, isilwane siba ozodlala naye kanye nemfihlo. Izelamani zabelana ngemisebenzi ehlobene nesilwane, zihlela imisebenzi yomndeni eduze kwaso (ukuhamba, imidlalo, ukuphuma okufushane), futhi lokhu kuqinisa izibopho zomndeni. Ezinganeni eziningi, inja noma ikati labo lingumngane wabo omkhulu wokudlala naye, ukufunda naye, ukubuka i-movie naye, noma ukulala naye.
Ngisho nasezingeni lemfundo, ukuhlala nezilwane kungakhuthaza ilukuluku kanye nobuciko: izingane zibuza imibuzo mayelana nokunakekelwa kwesilwane sazo, ukondliwa kwaso, noma impilo yaso, zisungula imidlalo, izindaba, kanye nemidwebo lapho isilwane sazo singumlingiswa oyinhloko, futhi zithuthukise amakhono okubuka ngokufunda ukuhumusha ulimi lomzimba waso.
Izinzuzo zomzimba: ukunyakaza, impilo, kanye nokungezwani komzimba okuncane
Ngezinkinga zokukhuluphala futhi yokuphila kokuhlala phansi Njengoba imisebenzi yabantwana ivame kakhulu kulezi zinsuku, kuyizindaba ezinhle ukuthi izinja zisiza izingane ukuthi zithole ukuvivinya umzimba nsuku zonke. Zidinga ukuhanjwa, ukugijima nazo, nokudlala ndawonye endlini, ukuze izingane zijabule kakhulu ngokuhambahamba kunaphambi kwethelevishini noma ikhompyutha.
Lo msebenzi owengeziwe womzimba, nakuba ungase ubonakale umncane, uyaqongelela phakathi nesonto futhi usiza ukugcina Isisindo esinempiloKuyasiza ekuthuthukiseni ukuhambisana kwemisipha nokuthuthukisa amandla nokukhuthazela. Ukudlala ngokulanda, ukugijima, noma ukudala imigwaqo yezithiyo ezenziwe ekhaya nenja kuwukuzivocavoca okujabulisayo izingane ezikubona njengokudlala, hhayi umsebenzi wasekhaya.
Inzuzo eyodwa yokugcina okufanele iqashelwe ukuthi ukuba nenja kuyabasiza ukuthi bakhule kancane izifo Eminyakeni ezayo, izilwane ezifuywayo zizigcina endaweni lapho zijwayela khona izinhlobo eziningi zamagciwane kanye nezinhlayiya zemvelo, ngakho-ke imizimba yazo izivikela kangcono kulokhu futhi azikhuli izinhlobo eziningi zokungezwani komzimba lapho sezikhulile, uma nje kungekho ukungezwani komzimba okutholakale ngaphambilini futhi udokotela wezingane noma udokotela wezifo zokungezwani komzimba engasho okunye.
Ukuhlala nezilwane ezifuywayo kungaba nethonya elihle amasosha omzimba kanye nasemzimbeni wokuphefumula. Izifundo eziningana zibonisa ukuthi izingane ezihlala nezinja namakati kusukela zisencane zinezifo ezimbalwa zokuphefumula futhi, uma zinjalo, ngokuvamile zidinga imithi embalwa, mhlawumbe ngoba imizimba yazo isijwayele amagciwane ahlukahlukene endaweni ezungezile zisencane.
Ezinganeni ezithambekele endleleni yokuphila yokuhlala phansi noma ezidinga ukulawula isisindo sazo, inja ingaba umsizi omkhulu ekusunguleni indlela yokuphila enempilo. imikhuba yokuphila esebenzayoUkuhamba ngezinyawo izikhathi eziningana ngosuku kuyindlela yemvelo yokufaka ukunyakaza, umoya omusha, kanye nemikhuba enempilo yomndeni wonke.
Uma ubuhlobo phakathi kwezingane nezilwane ezifuywayo bakhiwa ngenhlonipho, ukuqapha kwabantu abadala nokuzibophezela, isilwane siba umngane wokuphila othuthukisa impilo yazo, siqinise amakhono azo okuxhumana nabantu kanye nawomzwelo futhi sizifundise, usuku nosuku, ukunakekela abanye kanye nabo ngokwabo.