Inja iyisilwane ukuthi ayenzelwe ukuba ibe yodwaKusukela ekuqaleni kwayo, ibilokhu ihlala ngaphakathi kwamaqembu omphakathi (imindeni), lapho ukusinda kwayo kwakuxhomeke khona, futhi kusancike nanamuhla. inhlalakahle engokomzwelo kanye nenjabulo yakhe. Kodwa, ngenxa yejubane lokuphila esiphila kulo, sivame ukumshiya ekhaya njengoba singenakho okunye ukukhetha, futhi yilapho izinkinga zingavela khona, njengenja shaya iminyango noma kubangele omunye umonakalo.
Noma kunjalo, singenza izinto ezithile ukuze simenze azizwe ezolile, ukuze angaboni ukuthi singekho kangako, futhi ukunciphisa ukuziphatha okubhubhisayo ekhaya. Ngizokuchaza ngokuningiliziwe ngezansi. ukuvimbela kanjani inja yami ukunwaya iminyangoYini ebangela lokhu kuziphatha nokuthi yini ongayenza isinyathelo ngesinyathelo ukuze umsize.
Kungani inja yami iklwebha iminyango?
Ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile, kubalulekile ukuqonda umsuka wokuziphathaIqiniso lokuthi inja yakho iyaklwebha noma iyaklwebha emnyango livame ukuhlotshaniswa imizwa enamandla njengokujabula, ukukhungatheka, ukukhathazeka, noma ukucindezeleka.
Ezimweni eziningi, kukhona okuthile ngakolunye uhlangothi lomnyango ukuze inja ikubone. ifuna ukufinyelelaUmuntu exhumana naye, elinye igumbi endlini, umgwaqo, umsindo odonsa ukunaka kwayo, njll. Njengoba ingakwazi ukuwela, izama ukwenza kanjalo ngokuklwebha ngezidladla zayo, futhi uma ihlala kulesi simo semizwa, ingaholela… umonakalo omkhulu eminyango nasemabhodini okusekela.
Uma kufika ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukanaInja iba novalo njalo lapho abantu bayo bephuma endlini. Akukhona ukuthi “ayazi ukuthi kufanele ibe yodwa” ngokuthanda kwayo, kodwa kunalokho Akaqhubeki kahle ngaphandle kwenkampani yakho. futhi ufuna ukuziduduza ngale mikhuba ebhubhisayo. Ngalezo zikhathi, ngokuklwebha emnyango, lokho azama ukukwenza… phunyuka ukuze uqede esimweni sokungakhululeki.
Ezinye izinja zingakwazi ngisho ukuzilimazaZiklwebha kakhulu kangangokuthi zilimaze izihlathi noma izinzipho zazo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukungayinaki le nkinga futhi uyixazulule ngokushesha okukhulu, njalo kusukela ekuqaleni. inhlonipho kanye nokungabi nazijeziso.
Sebenzisa isikhathi osichitha naye
Inja iyakuthanda ukuba nomndeni wayo, ngakho-ke kungumqondo omuhle ukuthi sebenzisa isikhathi osichitha nayeAngisho ukuthi nobabili kufanele nibe segumbini elifanayo, oyedwa ekhoneni ngalinye, kodwa kunalokho kufanele kube khona ukusebenzisana kwekhwalithi: ukuthi udlala naye, ukuthi uhambahamba, ukuthi umthinta futhi umnaka, ukuthi ukhuluma naye ngokuthula nangothando… ngamafuphi, ukuze amenze azizwe ngempela ukuthi ube yingxenye yomndeni.
Izinja eziningi eziklwebha iminyango lapho zishiywe zodwa zichitha isikhathi sazo esisele ne- ukunaka okungajwayelekileNgezinye izikhathi kuba nokuxhumana okuningi, kanti ngezinye izikhathi cishe akukho nhlobo. Yakha inqubo ukuxhumana okulindelekile kwansuku zonke (ukuhamba, isikhathi sokudlala, isikhathi sokuthula ndawonye kusofa) kubasiza bazizwe bephephile kakhudlwana futhi kunciphisa isidingo sokufuna ukunakwa ngokuphuthumayo lapho uhamba.
Futhi, gwema ukuvumela inja yakho ichithe usuku lonke kuyacasula futhi akukhuthaziImidlalo yephunga, ukuqeqeshwa okuhle kokuqinisa, kanye namathoyizi asebenzisanayo kuqinisa isibopho futhi kuhlangabezana kangcono nezidingo zawo. izidingo zengqondo nezenhlalookunciphisa amathuba okuthi uzokhipha ukukhungatheka kwakhe eminyango noma efenisha.
Idinwe ngaphambi kokuhamba
Inja ekhathele eye yavivinya iyisilwane esizozola kakhulu. Okwakho, inhloso ukuthi umgijimise uma ephile sakaNoma hamba kahle ngokushintshashintsha kwejubane, isikhathi sokudlala, nesikhathi sokuhogela, ukuze afike ekhaya ekhululekile ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Uma isilwane sakho sikhulile noma sinezinkinga zamalunga noma ezinye izinkinga zomzimba, kusenezinto ongazenza ekhaya. Uzothola izinhlobonhlobo zezinto ezisetshenziswa ezitolo zezilwane ezifuywayo. amathoyizi asebenzisanayo nawobuhlakani okusiza inja ukuthi icabange. Ayigcini nje ngokuzijabulisa kakhulu, kodwa futhi iyakhathala kakhulu, ngakho-ke zinconywa kakhulu ukuze, uma uhamba, eyakhe izinga lokuvula yiba phansi.
Lezi zinhlobo zezinsiza zivumela inja ukuthi ihlobanise ukuba yodwa okuthile okuhle (isibonelo, ukuthola ithoyizi eligcwele ukudla okumnandi njengoba uhamba), esikhundleni sokulibona njengesikhathi sokulahlekelwa nokucindezeleka. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukulifaka kancane kancane futhi ungalokothi uzisebenzise njengesixazululo kuphela uma kukhona ukukhathazeka okukhulu ngokuhlukana.
Ngaphezu kokuzivocavoca umzimba, usebenza ku- ukukhathala kwengqondoUkufundisa amaqhinga alula, ukufuna ukudla okufihliwe endlini, noma ukuzijwayeza izikhathi ezimfushane zokulalela ngokuqinisa okuhle kusiza inja ukuba iphumule futhi ibhekane kangcono nokuba yodwa.
Musa ukuvalelisa kuye
Ngiyazi, lokhu kunzima kakhulu, kodwa kungcono kakhulu. ukungamvaleli ngendlela ekhangayoKungani? Ngoba unomngane onoboya obukubuka nsuku zonke futhi owazi kahle ukuthi uzohamba nini: babona imikhuba yakho yokubamba okhiye bakho, ukugqoka izicathulo zakho, ukuthatha isikhwama sakho, njll. Uma singeza kulokho ukuvalelisa okusuka enhliziyweni, ungazizwa ucindezeleke kakhulu.
Enja evame ukukhathazeka, amasiko okuvalelisa ahlelekile kakhulu aguqula ukuhamba kube yinto enzima. isikhathi esinzimaKungcono ukuthi uhambo lwakho lokuya nokubuya ekhaya lube ngokungakhethi ngangokunokwenzekaNgaphandle kokumdida, ngaphandle kokumanga isikhathi eside noma imisho emcasulayo. Ngale ndlela, uzofunda kancane kancane ukuthi ukuphuma kwakho kuyinto evamile nokuthi ubuya njalo.
Ukuzijwayeza nakho kuyasiza kakhulu. ukungabikho okwesikhashana kanye nokungabikho kweziquQala ngokuhamba imizuzu embalwa, ubuye ngaphambi kokuba inja ikhathazeke, bese ukhulisa kancane kancane isikhathi osihambile. Le nqubo yokuqeda ukusabela komzimba kufanele yenziwe ngokuthula, futhi uma inja ibhekene nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu, kuyalulekwa ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe. umqeqeshi wezinja ogxile ekukhathazekeni ngokuhlukana.
Lapho ubuya, mbingelele ngokulinganisela
Uma ufika ekhaya, kufanele uhlise umoya ukuze inja ikuqaphele futhi yehlise umoya futhi. Yini enye, kubalulekile ukuthi ungamlaleli kuze kube yilapho ukuthokoza sekuphelile kancaneNgaphandle kwalokho, kuzoba sengathi uyamvuza ngaleyo njabulo eyeqile, ngakho ngosuku olulandelayo uzobe ejabule kakhulu ngokulindela ukufika kwakho.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukungena ngaphakathi uqhubeke nezinto zakho. isimo sengqondo esizolile Futhi uma ubona inja iqala ukuphumula (ihlala phansi, iyeke ukugxuma, iphefumula ngokuthula), khona-ke ungayibingelela ngokuyishaya kancane nangamazwi athambile. Ngale ndlela izofunda lokho Ukuzola yikho okudonsela ukunaka kwakhoukungagxumi, ukukhonkotha noma ukuklwebha emnyango.
Uma esethule, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuhambahamba. Ukuhambahamba ngemva kokufika kwakho kusiza ukuqondisa imizwa yakhe. amandla anqwabelene futhi kuqinisa umqondo wokuthi ukuba khona kwakho kuletha izinto ezinhle, kodwa ngaphandle kokuhlanganiswa nesimo sokukhathazeka okukhulu.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izinja ziveza izimpawu zazo imizwa nezidingo ngendlela ehlukile kweyethu. Ukuziphatha kwabo, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kungavamile noma kuyasicasula, kunencazelo ethile. Yingakho kungafanele neze jezisa noma umemeze enjeni eklwebha emnyango: kungandisa ukwesaba, ukucindezeleka, futhi, ezimweni eziningi, yenza inkinga yokuziphatha ibe yimbi nakakhulu.
Uma uke waqaphela ukuthi inja yakho ayihlaliseki kakhulu kunokujwayelekile, iklwebha iminyango, ikhala, ikhonkotha kakhulu, noma ichitha izinto lapho iyodwa, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi idinga… usizo lochwephesheIsazi se-ethology noma umfundisi wezinja angahlola umongo, anqume ukuthi ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana noma enye inkinga, bese eklama uhlelo lokusebenza lomuntu siqu ukuze inja yakho ikwazi ukuhlala izolile ekhaya ngaphandle kokuhlupheka.
Ngokubekezela, imikhuba ecacile, ukuvivinya umzimba okufanele, kanye nendlela esekelwe ekuqondeni imizwa yazo, izinja eziningi zingakwazi ukufunda ukuphatha isizungu kangcono futhi bayeke ukuklwebha iminyango, baphile ngokuthula nangokuphepha nomndeni wabo wabantu.
Sithemba ukuthi lawa macebiso azokusiza ukuvimbela umngane wakho ukuthi angaklwebhi iminyango futhi abenze bajabule.