Kunenkolelo engamanga yokuthi izinja, zize zifinyelele eminyakeni ethile, Ngeke bafundiswe lutho. Ngakho-ke, kunezimo eziningi lapho abantu becela usizo lapho isilwane siphakathi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Masingazenzisi: kule minyaka, eloboya lisesimweni sokungaphumuli kakhulu. kepha akulona iqiniso elincane ukuthi useminyakeni engcono kakhulu yokufunda.
Lokho kusho, Uyazi ukuthi uzoqala nini ukuqeqesha inja? Uma impendulo ingu-negative, ungakhathazeki. Sizokutshela.
Izinja yizilwane zomphakathi ezihlala emaqenjini emindeni ezifundisa indlela yokuziphatha ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lapho bezohlala nathi bantu, Leyo ndima kathisha iwela emahlombe ethu ngemfundo eyakhayoIndima ebaluleke kakhulu ngesikhathi sobusha, okuyilapho inja izovivinya ukubekezela nokuqina kwethu izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa.
Umdlwane ozophela kungekudala, idinga ukukhuthazwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondoLokhu kusho ukuthi manje kunanini ngaphambili kuzodingeka sizinike isikhathi sokuthatha uhambo olude, simvumele ahlanganyele nabanye bohlobo lwakhe, simfundise izinto ezintsha futhi sidlale naye futhi simlandele. Amathiphu okusiza umdlwane wakho ukuthi ukhule unesimilo esihleUma kungenjalo, uzoba yinja endala engavikelekile okuzoba nzima ukuyilawula.
Ukubheka konke lokhu, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba umngani wethu abe yinja ekahle eqala ukumfundisa kusukela ngosuku lokuqala efika ekhaya. Ubuchopho babadlwane bufana nesipanji: bumunca yonke into, enhle nengalungile, ngokushesha okukhulu. Kuzoxhomeka kithina ukuthi umunca izinto ezinhle kuphela, njengemithetho eyisisekelo yokuhlalisana okuyofanele simfundise ngayo kusukela emncane. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho singagwema ukudumazeka ngokuzayo.
Yini okufanele usebenze ngayo kusukela ngosuku lokuqala (ngaphandle kokujaha)
Kusukela osukwini lokuqala usuvele ufunda: igama, izinqubo kanye nemithetho eyisisekelo. Sebenzisa ukuqinisa okuhle (ukuvuza, ukudlala, ukuphulula), gwema izijeziso futhi unakekele ukuphumula. Yenza amaseshini amafushane kakhulu (cishe umzuzu, 2-3 ngosuku) nemidlalo ehlelekile enesiqalo nokuma ukuze kuthuthukiswe ukuzithiba. Iveza i umthwali njengendawo yokukhosela ukuphepha futhi umfundise kancane kancane eba yedwa ukuvimbela ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana.
Inhlanzeko, ukuhlalisana kwabantu kanye nezisusa ezibalulekile
- Imikhuba yenhlanzeko: Setha amashejuli futhi uqinise lapho uphumelele; liqondise ngaphandle kokuthethisa uma lingaphumeleli.
- Qedela ukuhlalisana kwabantu: abantu, izinja kanye izisusa ezivela emvelweni (izimoto, izithuthuthu, amakati, amahhashi, imisindo nezindawo).
- Leash uhambe: Mjwayeze ukhololo; uma iqinisa, yima futhi uye phambili lapho intambo ixega.
- Ukushukunyiswa kwengqondo nokuqonda kahle: Amathoyizi asebenzisanayo nezindawo ezincane/izithiyo; gwema ukukhungatheka ngokuqapha isikhathi.
- Imithetho nemikhawulo: ukungaguquguquki ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya ukuze uphephe kanye nokuphilisana kahle.
Izimpawu eziwusizo ngaphandle kokujeziswa
isitimela "namanje" kancane kancane (imizuzwana kanye nebanga kancane kancane), "shiya" ukungazinaki izinto, kanye "phansi" ukuphuma kusofa/umbhede, ahlale eqinisa uma enza kahle. "hhayi" Isebenza njengesignali efundisayo, ngaphandle kokumemeza; abanye abantu bayayisebenzisa amadiski ensimbi ukumaka amaphutha, kodwa kuphela ukuqapha okukhulu kanye nokugwema ukwesabisa: isignali yezwi kanye nokuhoxisa ukufinyelela esisetshenziswa kungcono. Ukuqeqeshwa okunzima kakhulu kufanele kwenziwe uma kukhona ukuvuthwa okukhulu, ehlale egxile enhlalakahleni.
Kuzo zonke izigaba zayo (umdlwane, osemusha, osemusha omdala, omdala, nomdala) ulungisa okulindelekile: uzihlanganisa nabantu futhi ubeke izisekelo kusenesikhathi; ihlanganisa amakhono kamuva. Ngemfundo yokuqala nemnene uvimbela izinkinga, ufunza inja ephephile, uthuthukisa i ukuxhumana futhi uqinise i isixhumanisiUkufundisa kusukela osukwini lokuqala, ngokungaguquguquki nothando, kuyindlela emfushane kakhulu yokuphilisana ngenjabulo.