Uma siletha inja noma inja endala ekhaya, kufanele siyazi ukuthi injani. izinto zokuzilibazisa, it isimilo Futhi yini abayithandayo? Abaningi babo bayadinwa emakhaya futhi bathole izindlela zokuzijabulisa. iluma izinto zakhoIzicathulo yizona ezivame kakhulu, kodwa zingadla nezingubo ngisho nefenisha, okuyinto eyinkinga kithi futhi ingaba uphawu lokuthi inja inayo... izidingo ezingokomzwelo noma ezingokwenyama ezingamboziwe.
Uma ufuna ukuvimbela lokhu ukuthi kwenzeke kungenzeka kufanele ukubavimba kusukela ekuqaleniUkuvumela inja ukuthi ikwenze okwesikhashana bese uyivumela ukuthi ibe umkhuba wokuphumula nokuzijabulisa kuzokwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuyeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyinjana noma inja endala eyamukelwe, kubalulekile ukuyiqeqesha, ukhumbula ukuthi kuyo, ukuluma kuyindlela yemvelo. yemvelo futhi edingekayokodwa kumele siqondise izinto ezifanele.
Kungani izinja zihlafuna izicathulo nezinye izinto?
Izinja zihlola umhlaba ngokusebenzisa izinzwa futhi ikakhulukazi umlomo. Ukuhogela, ukunambitha, kanye nokuthinta ngomlomo kubasiza baqonde ukuthi kwenzekani eduze kwabo. ukuthungwa kwefenisha, amathoyizi, izihlalo noma izicathulo Ziyakhanga kakhulu, ngakho-ke kuyinto evamile ukuthi zihlafune izinhlobo ezahlukene zezinto uma zinjalo. bored, ukukhathazeka noma uma befuna donsela ukunaka yabanikazi babo.
Isiqondiso sokuqala ukuthi akufanele nanini yakha umkhuba esingafuni inja ibe nayo. Uma simnika izinto zethu, ngisho nezindala, ukuze azihlafune, uzocabanga ukuthi angahlafuna noma yini. iphunga lethu Ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi kusukela ekuqaleni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yinjana noma umuntu omdala, siyinikeze amathoyizi abo kuphela ukuluma, futhi ungalokothi ugqoke izicathulo noma izingubo ezindala.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi akukhona nje isizathu esisodwa esenza inja ibonise "uthando" olubonakalayo ngezicathulo. Ezimweni eziningi, indwangu yesicathulo, ikakhulukazi isikhumbaKubakhumbuza ukudla noma inyamazane. imikhonto Zingase zifane nesilwane esihambayo, okuvusa umuzwa wazo wemvelo ukuzingela nomdlaloNgaphezu kwalokho, iphunga elinamandla lezinyawo zethu lenza izicathulo zibe yizinto ezigcwele iphunga. ulwazi lwephunga kuyathakazelisa kakhulu kubo.
Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila kwazo, izinjana zidlula enkambisweni i-teethingNgesikhathi amazinyo abo ekhula, bazizwa bengakhululekile ezinsinini zabo, kanye ubuhlungu nokulunywaLokhu kubenza bahlafune zonke izinhlobo zokuthungwa ukuze bathole impumuzo. Lokhu kuziphatha kungabonakala nasezinjeni ezindala ezine- izinkinga zezinsini noma ukungakhululeki emlonyeni, abafuna ukukudambisa ngokuhlafuna.
Ezinjeni ezidlule ezigabeni zokugula ukulahlwa noma ohluphekayo ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukanaUkweba nokuhlafuna izicathulo kungaba yindlela izinja ezithola ngayo ukunakwa kwabanikazi bazo noma ukuzama ukuzizwa ziseduze nazo ngephunga. Akukhona ukuthi zifuna "ukulimaza" noma ukuziphindiselela, kodwa kunalokho zizama... phatha ukucindezeleka kwakho noma uqinisekise ukuthi abanakekeli babo bayabanaka.
Isithukuthezi, ukuntuleka kokuvivinya umzimba kanye nokuvuselelwa kwengqondo
Ukuziphatha kokuluma nokuphula izinto ngokuvamile kuvela, ezimweni eziningi, ku- isithukutheziAmandla enja awapheli ngokushesha ngokwanele. ukuvivinya umzimba noma nge ukukhuthazwa kwengqondoFuthi kudinga ukuqondiswa kokuthile: bavame ukukugxila ekulumeni nasekuphuleni noma yini abangafinyelela kuyo. Yingakho ukubathethisa kungasizi ngalutho uma singayixazululi inkinga eyisisekelo sayo. impandeukuthuthukisa indlela yabo yokuphila yansuku zonke.
Izinhlangano ezigxile ekuziphatheni kwezinja kanye nezinkampani zokudla kwezilwane ezifuywayo ziyavuma ukuthi izinja zihlafuna zonke izinhlobo zezinto ukuze... khipha amandla agciniweLesi senzo, uma siqondiswe kahle ezintweni ezifanele, siphelele enempilo futhi enenzuzo Ngenxa yentuthuko yabo, ngoba kubasiza ukuba baphumule futhi banciphise ukucindezeleka. Inkinga ivela lapho konke okudingeka ukuhlafuna kuqondiswe izinto zomuntu siqu njengezicathulo, izingubo, noma ifenisha.
Uma inja ikhathala, cishe izofuna izindlela zokuzijabulisa futhi ukuthuthukisa ukuziphatha okungafanele njengokuhlafuna ifenisha, izicathulo, noma amasokisi. Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi lapho inja ichitha imali isikhathi eside ngingedwa Ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuxhumana okuningi, ukuhamba okumbalwa, futhi kungekho midlalo enzima. Kulezi zimo, ukubhubhisa izinto kuba yindlela yokubhekana nesimo. ukuzivuselela futhi, kwezinye izinja, ngisho nohlobo "lokulutheka" ngoba ukuluma kuvuselela ukukhululwa ama-endorphinizinto ezihlobene nenjabulo.
Futhi namathonya ukuntuleka kokuzivocavocaLokhu kuhlobene kakhulu nesithukuthezi. Izinja eziningi azitholi ukuvivinya umzimba okwanele, ikakhulukazi izinhlobo ezinkulu noma ezikhuthele kakhulu. Ukuhamba ibanga elifushane akwanele; zidinga ukuhamba ibanga elide namathuba oku... run, ukuhogelaUkuhlola indawo ezungezile kanye nokuxhumana nezinye izinja kubalulekile. Inja engasebenzisi amandla ayo angokwenyama izofuna ezinye izindlela zokwenza kanjalo, futhi ukubhubhisa izinto zasekhaya kuphakathi kwezinto ezivame kakhulu.
Ezinjeni ezindala eziqhubeka nokubhubhisa izinto ezingaphezu kwesigaba sobusha, ngokuvamile kuba nenhlanganisela ukuntuleka kwemingcele ecacile kanye nokuntuleka kwesimiso esifanele. Ezimweni eziningi, izinja azikafundi umehluko phakathi kwalokho ezingakwazi ukukuhlafuna nalokho ezingakwazi ukukuhlafuna, noma azizange zithole ithuba lokuthuthukisa ukuziphatha kwemvelo (ukuhlola, ukulandela amathrekhi, ukudlala, ukuhlobana), ukuze bathulule wonke amandla abo endaweni eseduze, okungukuthi, ezintweni abangazifinyelela.
Ezinye izinja ezishiywa zodwa amahora amaningi zihlobanisa isenzo se- izicathulo zokuluma ngendlela yokuqeda ukukhathazeka okubangelwa ukungabikho kwabanikazi babo. Abakwenzi ngenxa yokuziphindiselela noma "ukuziphatha kabi," kodwa ngoba lokhu kuziphatha kubavumela phatha imizwa abangazi ukuthi bangazisebenzisa kanjani ngenye indlela futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, kubanikeza ukuvuselelwa okukhulu kwemizwa ngenxa yephunga kanye nokuthungwa kwezicathulo.
Indlela yokufundisa inja yakho ukuthi ingahlafuni izinto zakho
Okubalulekile esikudingayo ukukwenza thaya inja ngimnike ezinye izikhuthaziIthoyizi lohlobo lweKong lokumjabulisa efuna ukudla kwakhe, usuku oluchithwa efuna ukudla endlini noma emaphandleni, usuku lwemidlalo exhumanayo… Inja ethola ukuvivinya umzimba nengqondo iyinja engcono. ngokulinganiselayo okuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuluma izinto ekhaya.
Ukuze kuvinjelwe lokhu kuziphatha ukuthi kungagxili, kubalulekile qondisa kabusha ukuziphathaUma ubona inja yakho ibamba okuthile okungafanele, ungasebenzisa inkomba emfushane, njenge- "Cha!" Ngokuqina (ngaphandle kokumthethisa noma ukumethusa ngokweqile), susa into ngokuthula bese umnikeza enye yayo amathoyizi afanelekileUma nje inja iluma ithoyizi layo, kubalulekile mhalalisele Futhi, ngezikhathi ezithile, mnike umvuzo omncane. Ngale ndlela ufunda ukuthi ukuhlafuna izinto zakhe kunemiphumela emihle nokuthi izicathulo zakho "ziyadina."
Indlela ewusizo kakhulu ukwenza okuvinjelwe kubonakale sengathi ngaphandle kwenzalo nokuthi yini evunyelwe ihehe kakhuluUma ubamba inja yakho inesicathulo emlonyeni wayo, sondela eceleni, ngaphandle kokubonisa imizwa enamandla, susa isicathulo ngaphandle kokuthinta, bese uyinikeza ngokushesha ithoyizi ongalisebenzisa ukulihlafuna. dlala ngenkuthaloNgale ndlela, isicathulo silahlekelwa yinani futhi ithoyizi liba umthombo... ubumnandi nokunaka.
Kunconywa ukufundisa imiyalo eyisisekelo efana ne- "yekela"Okokuqala, ingane icelwa ukuba ilahle into engafanele (isiyalo), bese kunikezwa umdlalo noma ukuhamba okufushane (ukuzivocavoca), bese ekugcineni, inikezwa into. uthandoLolu chungechunge lwesiyalo, ukuvivinya umzimba, kanye nothando lusiza inja ukuba iqonde kangcono ingqondo yokuphila ndawonye nabantu sebevele belindele lokho okulindelekile kuye nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Esinye isici esibalulekile ukugwema ukuqinisa ngokungahlosile ukuziphatha okungafuneki. Ezinye izinja eziye zashiywa noma ezizizwa zingavikelekile zingase zihlafune izicathulo ukuze... donsela ukunakaUma njalo lapho bebhubhisa okuthile sisabela ngokubonisa intukuthelo enkulu, ukumemeza, noma ukubajaha endlini, ezimweni eziningi inja igcina ihumusha ukuthi yile ndlela abathola ngayo lokho abakufunayo. Ukuxhumana nabanikazi bazo, noma ngabe zimbi. Yingakho kungcono ukuhlala uzolile, wenze izinto ngokungaguquguquki, futhi uhlale unikeza enye indlela efanelekile.
Ngaphezu kokukulungisa khona lapho, kuyalulekwa ukuthi uchithe imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuhamba ekhaya ukuze dlala futhi unakekele Ukuze unciphise isithukuthezi kanye nesilingo sokuthatha izinto zakho, shiya inja yakho namathoyizi asebenzisanayo, amathoyizi okuhlafuna aqinile, noma ukudla okufihliwe. Lokhu kuyasiza ekuyigcineni imatasa ngenkathi iyodwa futhi kunciphisa amathuba okuba igxile ezicathulweni zakho.
Amathoyizi afanele, imingcele ecacile, kanye nokuvimbela
Esinye sezihluthulelo zokuvimbela inja yakho ekuhlafuneni izicathulo noma izingubo ukuyinika ezinye izindlela ezanelisa Isidingo sabo sokudlala nokuhlafuna. Amathoyizi enjoloba aqinile, amathoyizi endwangu aqondene nenja, kanye nezinye izinto zemvelo ezifana izinti noma ama-pinecone (uhlale eqashwe) kungaba usizo kakhulu. Kunconywa ukuthi inja ibe okungenani amathoyizi ahlukahlukene anezimo ezahlukene ukuze bahlale bejabule futhi bavimbele ukuthi bangakhathali ngabo ngokushesha.
Okungcono kakhulu, kusukela ebuntwaneni, kufanele afunde ukuthi kumele hlonipha izinto okungewona awakhe nokuthi ilungu ngalinye lomndeni linendawo yalo nezinto zalo. Ubeka imingcele njengesiqondiso salo. Ungalokothi usebenzise izicathulo ezindalaAmasokisi noma izingubo akufanele zisetshenziswe njengezinto zokudlala yinja, ngoba ngeke kwenzeke ukuthi ikwazi ukuhlukanisa ukuthi kungani ezinye izicathulo ziphephile ukuzihlafuna kanti ezinye aziphephile. Noma nini lapho ithatha isicathulo, ibathethise isikhashana, ibanike elinye lamathoyizi ayo, futhi uma bedlala ngaso, kuqinisa ukuziphatha ngamazwi anomusa, ukuphulula, noma imivuzo.
Ukuvimbela kuhilela nokuphatha indawo ezungezile. Ukugcina izicathulo endaweni inja engenakukwazi ukuyifinyelela, ukuvala iminyango yekamelo lokulala, noma ukusebenzisa ama-operators amade kunciphisa ingozi yokuchayeka. isilingo futhi kwenza kube lula ukufunda. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi inja inendawo yayo (umbhede wayo, igumbi layo, noma indlu yayo yokuhlala) lapho ingenza khona umsebenzi wayo wesikole. amathoyizi ayatholakala ukuphendukela kubo uma ngidinga ukuluma okuthile.
Ngokuqeqeshwa kwezinjana, kuqala ngosuku ezifika ngalo ekhaya. Ngisho noma zincane, zinawo wonke amathuluzi eziwadingayo ukuze zifunde. imikhawulo yokufundaIzinja eziningi zifunda ukuthi azikulumi kubafowabo nodadewabo: uma ziluma kakhulu, umdlalo uyaphela bese zithola ukusolwa. Ekhaya, ungalingisa le ndlela: uma inja ibamba into okungafanele ingayilumi noma iluma isandla sakho kanzima, yithi “cha” ecacile. yeka umdlalo Mshaye indiva imizuzwana embalwa aze ehlise umoya. Lokhu kuzomfundisa ukuthi ukuze aqhubeke nokudlala kumele alawule ukuluma kwakhe.
Ezinjeni ezindala, uma ukuthambekela kokubhubhisa izinto kuqhubeka, kuyalulekwa ukuhlola ukuthi isimiso sazo sihlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zazo. izidingo zomsebenzi futhi, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, thintana nodokotela isazi se-ethologist noma umqeqeshi oqeqeshiweEzinye izinja ziqala ukuziphatha okuphoqayo ngenxa yokuntuleka kokukhuthazwa noma izinkinga ezijulile zemizwa. Ukuqeqeshwa kwasekuqaleni okufanele, ukuxhumana okuhle, kanye nokuphila okucebile ngokuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe nomndeni kuyisisekelo esihle kakhulu senja yakho sokuyeka ukubona izicathulo zakho njengethoyizi elihle kakhulu emhlabeni.
Ngokubekezela, ukungaguquguquki, kanye nenqubo evamile, izinja eziningi zifunda ukuqondisa isifiso sazo semvelo sokuhlafuna amathoyizi afanele futhi balahlekelwa yisithakazelo ezicathulweni zakho, okuholela ekuhlaleni okuzolile nokunenhlonipho ekhaya.